Wednesday, July 20, 2011

haveing a kid vs being pregnent.

Its time once again to get out the Big Green Pen and pick a subject to talk about....hum... such a good question. I shall write about that tricky subject that is always on my (and many other TS girls minds) pregnancy! and children.

I am always forgeting that there IS a diffrence between the two. I realize that I am 20. I have lots of time, and I am not even in a relationship leading to marrage, but...I am a stresser, so I still stress.

Anyway, I am greatful to whoever invented In-Vitro Fertilization. However,.......thanks to science, a new study shows that IVF may not be the safest for mom, or child I think, its bad on the heart...or something.

This is heartbreaking. I always planned on pregnancy, and always kinda forgot about adoption, so i mix up not being able to be pregnant, with not being able to have kids. thats wrong. Adoption is always an option, IVF (well, I think it's an option.... some people say, (doctor people) that pregnancy is bad for our hearts (our meaning TS girls) I don't agree. (I just don't like what the Doctors are implying...I'm stubborn I guess). So its just like, not fair! I feel like with most normal marriages, the babies just come naturally, or with, very little

planing. This is not the case with ts girls. obviously. so, when you are married, when do you pick when to have kids? obviously its all up to you and your personal preferences, and what you are ready for, but I think that after the first anniversary is a good time. It could take a lot of time with, surrogacy or IVF or adoption.

So, Internet Nomads, TS sisters, and families,What do you think? Also, take our poll, and head over to the TSS-US website! Have a good day and Happy Reading!
PS-look at the new chat-box-thingie we have now! we will be haveing live chats on sundays at 6 central (my time) and 5 mst (ashley time) we hope to see you there!

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